Dear friends and family of Paul,

This website has been created to memorialize Paul’s life. There are hundreds of stories that need to be recorded for us to share with each other, and most importantly, for Paul’s 4 children. Please click on the appropriate page, whether that is “Family Stories” or “Friends Stories“, and share your stories in the comments. Eventually we will print these stories in a book for Ryan, Taylor, Lance, and Rider.

Many of you have asked to donate to a fund for Paul’s children. Details to do so are found on the “Fund for Paul’s Children” page.

The video shown at Paul’s service can be found here.

Thank you for your outpouring of support and love at this time!

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